MOTIVATION

STORY

One day the Zen master wanted to show his students a new technique of shooting an arrow. He told his students to cover his eyes with a cloth and then he shot his arrow. When he opened his eyes, he saw the target with no arrow in it and when he looked at his students, they looked embarrassed because their teacher had missed.

The Zen master asked them, “What lesson do you think I intend to teach you all today?” They answered, “We thought you would show us how to shoot at the target without looking.” The Zen master said, “No, I taught you that if you want to be successful in life, don’t forget the target. You have to keep an eye on the target, otherwise you may miss a good opportunity in life.” They looked at each other, impressed with the lesson.

The moral of the story is we need to consistently focus on what we want and we need to realize that :

• What thoughts we focus on we FEEL, therefore our thoughts have a direct effect on our emotions
• What we focus on and feel we attract in our lives. Our destiny is consistently shaped by our thoughts.

Quotes Of Success

Here are some quotes of success:

"Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.” Les Brown

"If you are not willing to risk the usual you will have to settle for the ordinary.” Jim Rohn

 “Identify your problems but give your power and energy to solutions.” Tony Robbins

 “As long as you’re going to be thinking anyway, think big.” Donald Trump

“A goal is a dream with a deadline.” Napoleon Hill

 “Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.” Albert Einstein

Setting goals in your life

Setting goals is very important for our future success.Everyone of us is spending countless hours to think about our present life and our future as well.We all wish to improve our life,and the first thing we do to change the present situation is to set goals.

But why is it important to set goals in our lives?Below you can find some good reasons for that:

1) You take control of your life,because by setting a goal,it gives you direction and helps you decide where to go in your life.

2) You focus on the important things.Goals help us sort out what is important or not to our life.You will spend time to achieve what matters to you.

3) You will make good decisions,because goals will help you identify and establish your priorities.

4) You will be self-confident and enthusiastic,because when you set a goal and measure the achievement,you will be able to see what you are capable of.Achieving your goals will make you believe in yourself,and be more confident.

5) You are closer to success,because goals are the starting point of success.A good start is half the way to success.

WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT IS THAT GOALS SHOULD BE:

S-Specific
M-Measurable
A-Achievable
R-Relevant
T-Time-bound

1. Specific Specific means that you describe your goal in as much detail as possible, the more clearly defined, the better. For example, "I will be fitter than I am now " is a general goal. Instead, "Jogging five miles once a week " is a specific goal. If you dream of a new car, what dose the new car look like? You decide on an "Audi A4, red, including navigation system". Good, this is a specific goal. The more precise you can be, the better. 2. Measurable To see if your goal is measurable, you may ask questions such as How many? How much? How do I know when the goal is achieved? You will know how you process your goal when making it measurable. You stay on track, reach your goal little by little, and see your progress. If a goal can not be measurable, it is not a smart goal. That's why "happy" or "successful" are not goals as such. Be specific! "I want to run 10 miles every day " shows the specific target to be measured. "I want to be a good runner" is not as measurable. 3. Achievable It means that you can complete the goal. It doesn't mean easy, just that you can have a reasonable expectation of achieving the goal. 4. Relevant Relevant means that the goal is important to you. It's something that you genuinely want, that fits in with your values and beliefs, and that you are prepared to work towards the goal. It's important to distinguish here between a goal and a passing thought. For example, you may like the notion of becoming a top racing driver, but are you really prepared to get up early and train every single day for the next 5 years? 5. Time-bound Time-bound is the last factor. It means you have to put a deadline on achieving your goal. Well, suppose we don't put a deadline, how long is it going to take? Maybe forever. So add a completion date to your goal. Once you have set up a goal, find out if your goal is smart according to this system. Adjust your goal until it is a smart goal.

Writing a successful post on my blog

Are there rules in writing a post?
It seems that if someone wants to write a succesful post,he has to follow a motif or several steps in order to catch the attention of the reader and keep his interest till the end of the article!

There are many sites and blogs that give us advice and tips of how to write a great blog content.But even with all this help,why can't i follow and do what they say we should do?I like to write what comes out of my heart even if this is not considered as a professional article!

My biggest hurdle is to decide what the topic will be,and then comes the doubt!!Is it a good subject?Will someone want to go through and read it to the end?Am i a good writer?What the title is going to be?

These and more questions are bothering my mind.We all know that a powerful title is very important to attract more readers to the post,so we have to be creative and put our imagination to work so to find a good title and that should be from 5 to 10 words the most.

Then we have to think what our goal is?What do we want to accomplish by writing an article?My target at this point is to express myself,my thoughts,and of course to keep my blog fresh and running.

And now we come to writing.Words are floating out of my mind,and i say- hey this is an easy thing to do.
But is not easy at all,this is an article that i want others to read,and this makes me hesitate to continue.What do i do?Do i stop here and delete what i wrote,being afraid that people will not like my post?

No,i get the decicion to go ahead,after all we are all humans,and we all have the right to make mistakes,but also the right to express ourselves in a way that matters for us!!

Please be free to leave a comment if you like my post!!

Who is really rich in this life?

Almost everybody on this earth nowadays is chasing wealth or at least to earn more money in order to make his life more comfortable and meaningful.Everywhere you look, you see people stressed, struggling to go ahead.Life is getting harder,competition is harder,relations are difficult to be kept alive and.......life goes on....

But is a rich man happier than a poor one?Whom we consider rich in this life?Just the one who has everything in materials?How about the ones who are rich in feelings,rich in love?
Rich in having true friends or healthy family?

Materialism turned people into feelingless creatures in most values of life,leaving behind and missing other most important things and at the same time simple things.
It's not easy to change priorities in life,but of course it's not right to be left behind.We need to be ambitious and set goals in order to succeed in life,and it's not bad to dream of a better future and fight for it,only we must not forget that there are also a lot more joys of life!!!!
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The key to achieve your goals

I had a pleasant afternoon today at home watching on dvd the french movie" The Chef " with Jean Reno.The story was as much predictable but it was fun.The restaurant group's new Ceo expects that the veteran chef will loose a star so he will replace him with a younger chef who specializes in molecular gastronomy.But the assistant of the chef who chases his dream to become a successful chef,with his excellent abilities,lifts up the expectations and earns an extra star!

Although it took the sous-chef a lot of time to succeed,and that was after he changed a few jobs,because he was persistent and he loved dealing with cooking he finally achieved what he dreamed!

The key to succeed is:

• remain focus on what your goal is
• be persistent,don't quit even if you think that you are facing a mountain of difficulties
• get educated and collect as much information as you can
• fight for what you think is impossible
• build a positive mental attitude
• do not fear of failure,after all failure makes us stronger and wiser

Who says that the road to success is easy and without obstacles?Don't loose your faith and keep trying!